start new,start fresh

I was born and brought up in a upper middle class family. We had very conservative family values.

The town I was brought up was a very small ton. After studying high school and college.I went to Big city for pursuing higher education. While I was studying to become a graduate I was staying in a boarding.I started to get acquainted with a guy who used to study in my class as well.We became friends, we used to do combined studies and we helped each other to get high scores.The more we got to know each the more we liked each other. We eventually fall in love with each other we wanted to live with each other.We took the bold step of letting our parents know about our love but there came a big no from both the families. There came a stage where he wanted to part as he did not have the dare to go against his family.I tried my level best to stop him and convince him to be with me but unfortunately nothing worked out.We had to bid bye to each other. This broke me down completely. I was hopeless, lost my dreams and I was in a state that I could never have imagined to see myself after graduation. I could not concentrate on my career, I had lost hopes completely.

This is when I took a bold step to move ahead and start a new life my family helped me a lot in recouping why should I blame myself for something that wasn't even my fault. I moved to a different city I started a fresh life, got a new job concentrated on my career. I climbed up and up in the ladder at work.I soon became a director of a multinational company and then slowly I started thinking of taking my own flat, I invested a little and for rest I took a loan and then a flat in my name, how happy I was is unimaginable even today by anybody. My parents got an alliance for me who was a decent looking and decent earning guy,first I hesitated whether or not to pursue my life in that direction but the nature of the guy made me to be comfortable and it's "We" who started a new life together for a long lasting journey called the new beginnings of life".He was very helping in nature and made me feel so important in his life. I, who had devastating past that revisited me every now and then slowly began to heal the injuries from past it was a very tough phase of life but the confidence in myself to move ahead and the love from the guy were the keys to move on and start fresh.In this situation charged with energy Allu Arjun's sensational moves and Anushka Manchanda's magical voice can come together to multiple the joy of happiness.

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The "magic" moment

 It used to be the same air, same life filled with humiliation and rejection of the society. I was never meant to study engineering and become a software engineer. But the software industry had boomed to this extent that every other parent wanted their son/daughter to be a software engineer in a multinational company, go overseas and earn a lot and return back and live a rich life in homeland. I was forced to be a part of this. I was admitted to engineering after getting payment/management quota seat in one of the top most engineering colleges in town. I tried my level best to understand the field but nothing ever got through my mind. I always had the feeling this is not what I want to be. I often used to ask myself what am I here for and my mind returned no answer. Finally I had completed my engineering exams after so much of efforts to clear my papers. We had campus interviews going on, I tried to clear the interviews but failed again and again. It was the 40th company where I had cleared the preliminary aptitude test everybody was already talking that I would fail in the next technical round I would fail and it happened again I did not get through. Friends and family were tired of my unsuccessful attempts to get a job.

I could see the rejection and hopeless eyes turning to ask me if I ever succeed in life and get a job. I was advised by my classmates to take training. I likewise joined the computer training courses that eventually get promised me a job at the completion of the course, everybody in my family was commenting this is a waste of money and investment on my career and future as I am dumb headed. With all push backs I took these courses and at the end of the course as predicted I did not get selected for any job. Everybody was boasting how they got great jobs in the companies and how handsome salary they are drawing but the goal was to console me on my failure and unsuccessful attempts to get a job and they would offer me to give a referral so that I bypass the queue. I tried to work for less paying, less dignified low level jobs everybody laughed at me. It was the heights of the humiliation. I said to myself I cannot take it anymore I have to do it, I have to succeed in life. In a situation like this Allu Arjun's sensational moves and Anushka Manchanda's Magical voice if it comes together it would add freshness to my dejected life and I would be able to make a fresh start with all freshness in me and definitely Allu Arjun and Anushka Manchanda would inspire me a lot.

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